Some good news.
I have two internet connections, both roughly the same speeds.
Ones 5mb down - around 600 or so up.
The other is, 6mb down - 768k up.
I was thinking of hosting the server on the first set, and playing on the second.
I am in an apartment, my apartment only has one internet connection, and its the second one.
And yes, I was given access to use the first one.
I got the server 'up' then shut down, due to firewall issues. I'll mess around with it tomorrow, and this weekend.